Here’s something no one says clearly enough: how you feel in your body at 45-plus has a direct and measurable impact on how you show up in dating.
The end of a long-term relationship or the loss of a partner isn’t just the loss of a person — it’s also major loss of an entire *structure* that existed. Your routines, your identity as “half of something”, your sense of the future you thought you were building. Grieving all of that takes longer than anyone tells you, and it doesn’t follow a schedule.
